Students
Learning is an important process of our life. We learn and earn someday. With growing competition, it is becoming difficult for students to cope up to the pressure thrust upon them. They not only have to do well in studies, but also other activities. They have to comply with the latest fashion and technology; gadgets and information. Furthermore, they need special attention and motivation. I pay special attention to school & college students as they are our future; the future citizens. They are the inheritors of dreams and aspirations; they are loaded with so much pressure that they need our love and proper attention like a small sapling. The best attention & support we give them, the best we can hope from them in future; rest assured with ISK, every student will be special. I love you all.
Individuals
Every individual knowingly or unknowingly is searching for something. We acquire education, job, career, family and so on but still, we want something more. We make our lives monotonous and live our life just like robots. Not only that, but we never realise the beauty of our life journey and don’t enjoy our life, just live every passing day as if we are a date on a calendar. You may think that you don’t need anyone to tell you or guide you, you may even think that you know what you want in life, and you are living the best of your life. But then who decides this? You can only realise this if you assess yourself and reach every quarter of your mind. I do this session one on one by giving you the liberty to talk your heart out, and these personal sessions give you the independence to liberate your thoughts.
We aspire for a good job or business, good family and a happy life, but then we also face uncertainties while doing this. This is where everyone needs a guide to understand your mind & its conflict. ISK as a Personal Life Coach holds your hand and will never leave you alone in any condition. Helping you to decide in every situation; envisioning you with the power of looking beyond ones capacity. ISK prepares you to become the bestest among the best. Be it male or female, you all are special, and you all need special attention; rest assured with ISK, you will always be special. I love you all.
Professionals
You consider your qualification or your work experience as your tool to navigate you through the staircase of your career. But you forget that you also need to have a personality, character and attitude to stand tall among many. Branded & costly apparels or accessories give you a passage to enter an elite club, but it is yourself which will highlight you in the crowd. We all need the ability to carry ourselves with confidence. We all want to be better than the rest of the crowd. Furthermore, improve the way we work and generate results which identifies with our true personality.
We wish to become a role model for our juniors and a favourite of our seniors. The one who handles all this with ease is bound to succeed as a professional. For it, everyone needs to work on himself/herself to be the one; you will need an insight, a deep focus inside your real self. Your real self, your abilities, your qualities which you forgot and became somebody else, come meet yourself with me; rest assured with ISK, you will always be special. I love you all
Corporates
In this competitive world, some Corporates try hard to retain existing staff due to new emerging companies and can also hire & fire people anytime. The fear of being fired anytime makes every employee unsure about his/her place in the company. We become so unsecured that we want to impress the administration of our dedication towards the company by becoming a workaholic. We try to give every second of our life to the company, early mornings, late evenings and long hours of travelling, leaving behind family, social life & all the moments of joy. The pressure of retaining our place in a company or to remain in the business amounts to fear & anxiety, leading to physical and mental complexities.
We need to work for earning, for our living and that cannot be ruled out, but then where do we stop? Where do we draw a line? We are employees and not slaves, this holds true from an employee’s perspective, but then what can companies do? They have invested lots of money in the company and want to see investments reaping profits. So, what can be done? How can we create a balance? How can the companies get a desired balance sheet and the employees get a healthy working environment? How can working be cordial rather than conflict?
The answer is, we make working complementary and not compulsory. Yes! I mean, working should be joyous and not a boring routine. An employee is assured of its place and the company is assured about its realistic performance can be the way ahead. ISK makes sure that a company and its employees sow the seed of trust & mutual admiration for each other. The employees need to love the job and vice-versa, the company administration needs to love its employees. Then analyse, apply the best people to the best possible work. Understanding the limitations and strength of every employee, developing bond among the entire working administration and implementing techniques to reap the best output within the stipulated time is the key to our theory. We have done this elsewhere, and we can do it with you; rest assured with ISK, your company and all your employees will always be special. I love you all.
Couples
A man & woman marry and weave a whole new world around them. A man has a concept of his woman, and a woman has a concept of her man. It is not necessary that a man chooses his spouse or the woman choose hers. In a traditional set-up, it is more often that families decide and the man-woman gets married. These men women are strangers to each other and only after marriage that they get to know each other. Some accept whatever is, but some strongly oppose it; a clash among couples leads to a disturbed married life. Unhappy marriages are loveless marriage; kids born to these couples will be a product of procreation and not love. These kids will never ever see the emotion of love around them. It is a marriage of convenience, not of love and that’s the reality of almost all the marriages in India. If we do an honest survey, we will find 99% of couples are unhappy in their arrangement. They won’t even know why they are together and why didn’t they separate even after realising the truth. And the biggest dilemma is that if at all you ask them why are they married or what did they find exciting about marriage or what did you get through marriage; they will have no answer but a plain standard statement that that’s the way it is.
No man woman are identical, they are different from each other, see life differently. Some stick together but others may not, and we cannot force couples to stick to each other even after irreconcilable differences. It is better to let two individuals be happy separately rather than two families being unhappy jointly. Some realise this truth and want to correct this. But some may want to just get out of the arrangement. And some even after realising would not dare to utter a word due to fear of the society. With this compromise, arrangement & fear in mind we cannot have good offspring. Loveless environment means a society full of enmity, arrogance, hatred & greed as love was never part of this relationship. Letting or breaking off marriages is not the solution, but if we do not get to the root cause of such a problem; marriages will not survive. Neither we can continue to let people live in a troubled marriage, nor can we keep breaking marriages without adequate reasons. The question arises, how can we deal with such condition?
We need to understand these couples and if things can be mended by a little correction, then it should be given a try. Both man & woman need to wholeheartedly agree to mend differences by identifying issues within them. Once things are clear for both of them, we can hope to reconcile them. If we want to have a good society, we need to address this situation. Every individual needs space to breathe, every individual has a distinct identity, dream & goals of life differ. Marriage is a journey of two different people, we should respect both individuals and let both be part of their exciting journey. No one is above the other, both are equal.
We can do this for each other when we strongly love each other; I strongly believe that love alone is the remedy for all problems; rest assured with ISK, every individual is always special, his/her views are special. I love you all.
Celebrities
Every celebrity standing in front of the camera behaves as per the character, but in real life they too are like any normal human beings. They live under the shadow of fear; fear of being rejected or thrown out of the limelight. They are the most vulnerable lot in our society. A general person can hide his/her failure or rejection by socialising or by just relocating to a new town, but a celebrity cannot hide anywhere. They will be recognised easily, and today’s media wants stories which can sell or create TRPs; what better than a story of a celebrity.
To stay in the race they need to look fashion divas, young, fresh and stylish at every event. They are under constant watch of their fans. They also have to maintain a perfect lifestyle, or they will lose their credibility.
Likewise, they have a lot of pressure to keep smiling even under stress and tough conditions. They are always under the lens, be it media or the public. I have worked with them as a buddy & listened to their fears; I have assisted them in handling situations. These celebrities entertain us, make us laugh & cry, become a part of our life; they too need that special attention which can keep them rooted and make them grow as actors. They too sometimes expect a normal behaviour from others and want to enjoy life as a normal person. They, too, need guidance & criticism to evolve, they need a stronger mind; rest assured with ISK, no celebrity is always a celebrity but just a friend. I love you all.
Groups
We assume that we achieve success in our career by our hard work & perseverance but miss the point that in our career, we have other contributors as well. Apart from our successful jobs or business, there is more to life. We have family, friends, co-workers, neighbours, servants, domestic helps, drivers, watchman & many more that complete our life. We can never succeed without the assistance of the people around us. Not only that, but we all are bound to each other as like small parts of a big machine. We all, when synchronise, run a machine. We as a tiny part of a big machine cannot function alone and the sooner we understand this reality the better for all.
Religion, caste, community are just labels we hold on to ourselves, but they shouldn’t become hurdles in our social development. Eastern philosophies believe that our mortal body is a mixture of five elements. These five elements like fire, water, earth, air and ether are our composition. When a fire & water both having different & opposite characteristics bond together to make a human body and can sustain together, then why cannot people from different backgrounds gel with each other? Why do we have to hate each other for no reason? Differences can be resolved just by talking to each other. Why do we create an environment of hatred & anger around us? It will serve no purpose. I believe that we all need to recognise each other’s contribution in our lives; the day we hold each other’s hands, trust each other, rest assured no one will ever fall. And the binding force is LOVE. Yes! I love you all.